Anartha Nivrtti: Overcoming False Ego

If one commits offenses against devotees, and also has a strong false ego problem, then how to purify it and rectify the offenses? How to convert false ego?

The way to overcome false ego is to cultivate real ego. Our real identity, constitutionally, is that we are eternal servants of Krishna and servants of His servants. By diligently cultivating a spiritual vision, by seeing ourselves as humble servants of the devotees and being in the attitude of serving them beneficially, replaces offensive and false egoistic mentality.

Q. Our BG discussion group has been rambling for lack of our ability to grapple with the meaning of 'ego'. All of us generally agree that spirituality is about surrendering the ego or getting rid of 'I consciousness'. But understanding it conceptually itself seems a challenge. We discussed 'I am not the body, I am the soul', and 'I am the eternal servant of the lord' aspects. We also cited the example of sage Valmiki - he must have lost consciousness of body altogether. We would appreciate hearing from you about this topic.